She had been out on a date with a stunningly handsome grad student.Despite a lot of hope and hype about the outing, it didn’t look like it went all that well.
Behavioral extremes indicate a power play is being employed. Once we have the ability to see hot and cold for what it is, we're less likely to suffer its negative effects.
“I’m Yet during my time recovering from a messy breakup and involving myself with other guys, I realized that allowing the guys I date to dictate how I feel about myself was a recipe for disaster.
The truth is, we can analyze the reasons “why” it’s not working all day.
Contact is reciprocal, time is made to see each other, and forward movement is evident. The hot phase is designed to get you in the gate that leads to the corral, where you'll later be harnessed. Your partner begins to pull away making you long for their previous attention.
Whether initiated by a cold-shoulder, avoidance, or lack of communication... This phase activates loss, making you yearn for them and wait with bated breath for their call or text. These are the basic dance steps to this type of behavior. This formula is predictable and consistent even when your partner's reactions are not.