Dating someone who is going through a divorce with kids
Even if your husband has carried on numerous affairs during your marriage, he will not think that you are justified in seeing someone new at this time.
All he will focus on is that he has been wronged and will want to seek justice anyway he can.
By Tracy Achen If you are thinking about dating during divorce ... You may think that you are free to start a new relationship once the decision is made to separate or divorce.
But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.
If you have children, then you also need to realize that it's in your best interest to try to keep a cordial relationship with your husband.
The most important things that both parents can do to help kids through this difficult time are: Adults going through separation and divorce need support — from friends, professionals, clergy, and family.
But don't seek support from your kids, even if they seem to want you to.
It's important to try to leave feelings of anger, guilt, or blame out of it.
Practice how you're going to manage telling your kids so you don't become upset or angry during the talk.